Of Food and Ghosts

The morning downpour gave the air a cool, refreshing feel yesterday when I brought my old aunts and uncles to the Choa Chu Kang columbarium. The Chinese "qingming" festival (清明节 or so-called "tomb-sweeping" day) has already passed but I reckon any time is a good time to visit my mother's niche at the columbarium. Our remembrance of our dear departed ones need not be tied to any ritualistic adherence to any particular day or to the Chinese tradition.

I've always enjoyed looking at the niches in the columbarium. Many families adorn the niches of their loved ones with not only colourful flowers but also fanciful decorations and even angpows. What strikes me particularly is the decoration with miniature artificial food - tiny dianxin in their baskets, multi-layered hamburgers, bowls of what looked like noodle soup, plates of poultry, etc.

Offering of food to the deceased on special occasions is an enduring Chinese custom among non-Christians who practise so-called "pai-sin" (mixture of ancestor worship and elements of Buddhism, Confucianism and Taoism). This offering of food may be motivated by filial piety to provide for the afterlife of the deceased, by the desire to gain their favours in supernatural blessings and assistance, or perhaps by fear of the supernatural powers of "ghosts" and the perception of the need to appease them not to inflict curses or do evil.

So do "ghosts" exist after death? Many non-Christian traditional Chinese clearly believe in the existence of ghosts and celebrate the festival of "hungry ghosts" with much fanfare. My mother, before she became a Christian, used to cook my late father's favourite dishes for his death anniversary and invite him (his "ghost"?) to eat the food offerings. At the festival of "hungry ghosts", she would pay the temple monks to burn offerings of paper money and other material stuff of paper eg clothes.

What about the Christian view of "ghosts"? Do "ghosts" exist from the biblical perspective? The answer is "No, there are no ghosts."

I've learnt from Dr Violet James (whose course on Asian religions I attended at the Singapore Bible College years ago):
* Death is a radical break with life, a final separation with no possibility of returning to heaven or hell.
* There is no communication between the living and the dead (Luke 16:19-31).
* God forbids acts of worship or prayers to the dead.
(Course manual by Dr Violet James)

In the gospel of Luke cited by Dr James, Jesus tells about the rich man who was cast into the torment of fire in hell after he died and pleaded with father Abraham (in heaven) for water to cool his tongue. Abraham replied that "... between us and you a great chasm has been fixed, so that those who want to go from here to you cannot, nor can anyone cross over from there to us". Just as the dead cannot go from hell to heaven and vice versa, they cannot go from hell or heaven to earth.

But what about the "ghost" of the prophet Samuel who was summoned by a medium (the witch of Endor) for King Saul? (1 Samuel 28). Dr James explained that this apparition was not a "ghost" of the deceased but a "spirit" purporting to be Samuel.

Finally, the exhortation from Dr Violet James is a good reminder to us:
"But Christians must do the following:
- Love and care for family members while they are alive.
- Set examples as children of God in life and action, thought and deed.
- Remember the dead on special days by thanking God for their love, care and concern while they were alive."